New to Abingdon
Going to any church for the first time may feel a little strange. We want you to be able to relax, to feel welcome and able to participate as you choose. Here is a guide to some of what you might expect if you join us for a worship service at Abingdon.
We welcome you
The Basics
What time do I arrive? It’s good to arrive a few minutes before the service so you can get yourself settled. An usher or greeter will give you a bulletin/service leaflet/ program which will guide you through the service.
Where do I sit? Our colonial church has pew boxes. They are not reserved and you can sit anywhere you would like.
Sit, stand, or kneel? At Abingdon, some stand while others kneel, so nothing you do is wrong. It's always appropriate to follow the example of those around you.
The Peace This can be a particularly awkward moment for people who are newcomers or visitors. What we are doing is ritually enacting our need to be in right relationship with one another before we go to communion. We do that by saying “Peace be with you” to one another. People may shake hands or embrace each other. You can greet the people right around you.
Communion People generally come forward to stand or kneel at the altar to receive communion. Ushers will help guide you. This is a good time to watch what others are doing and follow their example. The official policy of the Episcopal Church is that anyone who has been baptized may receive communion. Others may come to the altar for a blessing. Gluten-free wafers and alcohol-free wine are available.
Ah, what about a bathroom? When our church was built, outhouses were all the rage. But we’ve modernized things a bit. Bathrooms are found in the Parish House - the building on the left as you enter our campus. We’ve got 5 of them, make yourself at home.
How about kids? Children are welcome at all our services but they might benefit from our Children’s Chapel which takes place during our 10:30 service. Toward the end of our first song, kids 10 and under can go from grown-up church to an age-appropriate service where they will hear some of the lessons for the day and a message. They return to grown-up church during the Peace to be with their families.
